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Difficult Conversations

Author : Douglas Stone
ISBN : 9781101496763
Genre : Psychology
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The 10th-anniversary edition of the New York Times business bestseller-now updated with "Answers to Ten Questions People Ask" We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day-whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success. you'll learn how to: · Decipher the underlying structure of every difficult conversation · Start a conversation without defensiveness · Listen for the meaning of what is not said · Stay balanced in the face of attacks and accusations · Move from emotion to productive problem solving From the Trade Paperback edition.

Difficult Conversations

Author : Douglas Stone
ISBN : 9780143118442
Genre : Psychology
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The authors cover difficult situations in both personal and professional life.

Difficult Conversations

Author : Douglas Stone
ISBN : 9780143118442
Genre : Psychology
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The authors cover difficult situations in both personal and professional life.

Thanks For The Feedback

Author : Douglas Stone
ISBN : 9781101614273
Genre : Business & Economics
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The bestselling authors of the classic Difficult Conversations teach us how to turn evaluations, advice, criticisms, and coaching into productive listening and learning We swim in an ocean of feedback. Bosses, colleagues, customers—but also family, friends, and in-laws—they all have “suggestions” for our performance, parenting, or appearance. We know that feedback is essential for healthy relationships and professional development—but we dread it and often dismiss it. That’s because receiving feedback sits at the junction of two conflicting human desires. We do want to learn and grow. And we also want to be accepted just as we are right now. Thanks for the Feedback is the first book to address this tension head on. It explains why getting feedback is so crucial yet so challenging, and offers a powerful framework to help us take on life’s blizzard of off-hand comments, annual evaluations, and unsolicited advice with curiosity and grace. The business world spends billions of dollars and millions of hours each year teaching people how to give feedback more effectively. Stone and Heen argue that we’ve got it backwards and show us why the smart money is on educating receivers— in the workplace and in personal relationships as well. Coauthors of the international bestseller Difficult Conversations, Stone and Heen have spent the last ten years working with businesses, nonprofits, governments, and families to determine what helps us learn and what gets in our way. With humor and clarity, they blend the latest insights from neuroscience and psychology with practical, hard-headed advice. The book is destined to become a classic in the world of leadership, organizational behavior, and education.

Getting To Yes

Author : Roger Fisher
ISBN : 9781448136094
Genre : Business & Economics
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The world's bestselling guide to negotiation. Getting to Yes has been in print for over thirty years, and in that time has helped millions of people secure win-win agreements both at work and in their private lives. Including principles such as: Don't bargain over positions Separate the people from the problem and Insist on objective criteria Getting to Yes simplifies the whole negotation process, offering a highly effective framework that will ensure success.

Real College

Author : Douglas Stone
ISBN : 0143034251
Genre : Education
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A practical handbook for prospective students guides readers through the pressures of college life, offering valuable advice on how to deal with incompatible roommates, academic pressures, peer pressure, parental communication, substance abuse and sex, and other important issues confronting young people. Original.

Having Hard Conversations

Author : Jennifer Abrams
ISBN : 9781452295664
Genre : Education
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Speak with clarity, confidence, and courage! Many educators struggle with discussing difficult issues with colleagues. This insightful book helps readers effectively lead challenging conversations with supervisees, peers, and supervisors. Emphasizing initiative and preparation as keys to a successful conversation, the author’s step-by-step approach provides: Thought-provoking questions and first-person accounts that help build communications skills Advice on overcoming personal hesitation about expressing concerns Guidance on goal setting and choosing the best “what-where-and-when” for a productive discussion Sample scripts and other interactive tools to help educators prepare for the conversation and achieve positive outcomes

Difficult Conversations Just For Women

Author : Sofia Santiago Mba
ISBN : 1533546983
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Every woman intuitively knows that the strategies recommended for men won't work for women. Men will be called leaders and women who do the same things will be called "bossy." If she says "I feel" she may be considered hormonal. People respond negatively to assertive women, whereas assertive men are admired. And when women speak out to defend their turf they're seen as "control freaks," while men, acting the same way, are seen as highly committed. Those and many more are the reasons why women avoid confrontation at all costs, make fewer requests for themselves than men, and end up not getting what they want or deserve. This book explains why traditional strategies designed with men in mind need to be adapted, and most importantly, how. This book, written by a women-only team just for women is based on ground-breaking research. Presented in a lively and entertaining style, it gives women the tools they need to handle difficult conversations and more. Did you know that compared to men women tend to self-criticize more, apologize more, and get interrupted more? Did you know that a woman's ethnicity influences the way she communicates and even the way she is perceived? Did you know that gender, personality, and cultural differences call for different strategies when it comes to dealing with difficult conversations? Sofia Santiago and Dr. Susan Harrison understand these and want to help women to conquer the hurdles that are unique to women, in the workplace and at home. When it comes to difficult conversations, women struggle to find the right balance between aggressive (a "witch") and passive (a doormat). Women want to be perceived as competent and to be liked, but sometimes the sweet point in the middle is hard to find. That's why women needed a book like this, but it wasn't available until now. Dealing with Difficult Conversations Just for Women shares cutting-edge studies and illustrative stories. Whether they make you smile or make you frown, they will certainly make you think. Learn specific techniques and wording to feel confident and assertive before, during, and after confronting a face-to-face difficult conversation.

How To Tell Anyone Anything

Author : Richard S. Gallagher
ISBN : 9780814410158
Genre : Business & Economics
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No one likes to be criticized. But when feedback is necessary whether it's with a boss, someone we manage, or another co-worker it takes great communication skills to successfully get the message across with feelings and relationships intact. Drawing from the latest thinking in psychology on how best to connect with others, How to Tell Anyone Anything steers readers away from the common mistake of focusing on what's wrong, and shows them instead how to provide clear, constructive, positive messages. From telling a frequently late employee that we understand what happened (even as we negotiate for the problem to stop), to asking a rude co-worker what's bothering them (and by doing so, discovering the root of the problem), the book gives readers powerful insight into how we all react naturally to criticism and how to transform interactions that might become verbal tugs of war into collaborative, problem-solving sessions.

The Discomfort Zone

Author : Marcia Reynolds
ISBN : 9781626560673
Genre : Business & Economics
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You want people to stretch their limits, but your conversations meant to help them often fall flat or backfire, creating more resistance than growth. Top leadership coach Marcia Reynolds offers a model for using the Discomfort Zone—the moment when the mind is most open to learning—to prompt people to think through problems, see situations more strategically, and transcend their limitations. Drawing on recent discoveries in the neuroscience of learning, Reynolds shows how to ask the kinds of questions that short-circuit the brain’s defense mechanisms and habitual thought patterns. Then, instead of being told, people see for themselves the insightful and often profound solutions to what is stopping their progress. The exercises and case studies will help you use discomfort in your conversations to create lasting changes and an enlivened workforce.

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